It Is What It Is

In my state of South Carolina we are dead in the middle of an election or rather the running of "Who is our next Governor"? We have two strong opponents and I like them both. The problem I have is all the bull between them and the slinging of insults and he said this and she said that and he did this and she did that, stop it all ready. Your driving people nuts. It starts to get confusing and then you both loose what your trying to communicate to the people. I tried to watch the debate and I thought good grief your not even answering the questions, Your giving an answer but not a solution. You both have learned the art of dancing around the question and going all the way around the block and back and still haven't said anything. Get to the point make it short and sweet and run a campaign without the attacks and innuendo's. For once I would like to see questions answered with solutions and not politics. Is this too much to ask for???

Our President

Being president of the United States has to be one of the toughest jobs to have. This elected official comes into office with huge problems that was left over from the previous administration and he goes forth with such vigor and does the best he can do under the circumstances. Not only does he deal with the past problems but must tackle all the new ones that come into play. Lately all I see on the news is that his popular vote with the people is very low which is a surprise to me because we the people meaning you and I put him in office, so evidently at that time we the people had full confidence in him and what he could do for America. So what happened? Our president has to fight for every little thing in congress and he did not make theses problems and issues, our president is trying to do every thing possible within his grasp and the United States problems are not going to be fixed overnight or in the 4 years that he is in office. We the people need to be patience and give this administration a chance. The economy, employment, health care, I could go on for days is not going to be fixed over night. These problems are going to take quite a while and it may take several elections and administrations before we even see a dent. I believe that we the people need to stay strong and support our government and each other for united we stand than apart...

MIA (Missing In Action)

Sometimes I have so many thoughts swimming around in my mind that I loose focus on what I want to say or do. I find that when I am in this mode I just shut down and do nothing. I have to regroup and think about all the things I might want to say but I have to have that moment when you just know exactly what I want to say and can begin to put it writing. Well, Ive been in that state of mind and haven't gotten to the point to where I can express what I'm thinking. Kinda like a car stalling, I start and run a few seconds then I sputter out. Start, sputter, start, sputter, well you get the idea. However, I am experiencing a glimmer of light and I can feel myself coming back into focus with a clear mind of thoughts that I hope to put in writing to share with all. I found the light switch that had eluded me in the dark and I hope it remains bright and steady...

Destiny...

I saw on the news the other day about a young boy that was the sole survivor of a plane accident. His parents and I believe a sibling was killed along with everyone else on the plane. It was horrible and heartbreaking at the loss of life. So many people are impacted and it will take years before the grief can begin to heal. I still go back to this small child and know that God has a plan for him. No one knows what it is but the stage has all ready been set. I hope he can go forward and find his smile again.

Remember...

I can remember way back when I used to hang clothes on a clothes line in my back yard with clothes pins. Yes, we had a dryer but at one time it was nice to smell the fresh air on your towels and sheets from hanging on a line that the sun and warm air had dried. Don't you remember when you could run with all your mite and throw your arms and body into the sheets hanging from the clothes line in the summer or just before a rainstorm you could smell the rain and you had to quickly grab the clothes from the line before they became wet and as you folded each towel and sheet you could still smell the wetness of rain in them. Well the same thing applies that as I folded and hung up my moms clothes I could smell her, you know the smell maybe it was fresh bread or frosting from a cake or her favorite cologne or just a clean sweet soapy smell or maybe it was blue grass. I knew my moms smell and I knew her just by her smell alone and when I was sad or lonely or just missed her I would go to her closet and stand in the middle of her clothes and let her clothes wrap around me like a hug and take deep long breaths and take in her smell and immediately I felt happy and complete and loved. The blue grass smell I associated with was a perfume she wore and she never wore any other and I knew that when I smelled that perfume I instantly thought of her. I believe all mothers have a mommy smell that only her children know and this smell is a very strong bond just between her and them. The next time you hug your mom take the time and close your eyes and relish in your mommy smell for its a love of a lifetime...

Being a parent...

As I was growing up and my parents would discipline me I did not always agree or even understand the punishment. There were plenty of times that I said to myself, when I grow up I am never going to do that to my child or say certain things to my child. But as I raised my daughter I found myself repeating a lot of the same things that was done to me. Some of these things were good and some were not so good, but I say wait, stop, and listen for no one that becomes a parent is given a handbook or manual on how to be a parent. Sure there are dozens, hundreds of books written on parenting but really, these books were written after the fact. I mean these people became parents, went through the trials and errors and then thought gee, let me write a book on parenting for I've got this in the bag. No one knows how to parent for this is a learning as you go type of thing and you do the best that you can by what you know. You go by the way you were treated and what you have learned from others. Parents with more than one child will work even harder for they do not want to repeat mistakes from one child to the next but to continue to raise them the best way possible. Yes, it would be great if we all had instructions given to us as we leave the hospital but we do have the ability to love and learn and make our mistakes and hope that we have made a difference in some one's life. Its hard being a parent but its so worth it...

Vows

What has happened to the vows of marriage? Where did they go? Do people really take them seriously? These are the questions that have pondered me with all the accusations of affairs in our society. It really is depressing when every time you turn on your television, read a paper or look through a magazine you see all the affairs that is plaguing our society. What are we teaching our children, that its OK to make a promise in front of our friends and family, put it in writing, and two weeks later be sleeping with someone else? Saying I'm sorry and still love you just doesn't cut it. Why go through the wedding and signing a marriage license if you were never going to follow the vows to begin with? Oh, I know it seemed like a good idea at the time. Marriage is hard, and those people that enter into it lightly is doing an injustice not just to themselves but to all those that marry and mean it. Getting married means two people have made a promise before god, family, and friends to make a life together through the bad times and the good, sickness, children, financial strain, plain old life. You don't take off running at the first sight of discomfort, you buckle down and deal with it. That is why you see couples that are celebrating there 25Th, 30Th, and even 50Th anniversary and you think GOSH, how did they do it? They did it the hard way by loving, respecting and honoring there vows. That's what being married is! A novelty I know but wouldn't it be nice if it caught on... P.S. Now don't get me wrong ABUSE and NEGLECT of any kind should never be tolerated, I was mainly talking about infidelity!! Marriage can be good but it can also be painful, so take note and be wise and love long.